Question 1

Is relationship counselling confidential?

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Yes, completely. What you share stays between you and your counsellor. The only exception is a rare situation where someone's safety is at serious risk.

Question 2

Do both partners need to attend?

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Not necessarily. Many people start on their own. Couple sessions are ideal, but individual sessions are just as welcome.

Question 3

What if my partner refuses to come?

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You can still begin. Working on your own understanding often changes the relationship — and partners frequently join later.

Question 4

How many sessions will we need?

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It depends on your goals. Many clients feel a real difference within 4 to 6 sessions; we review progress together regularly.

Question 5

How many couple counselling sessions will we need?

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Many couples notice a shift within 4 to 6 sessions. Deeper issues such as infidelity can take longer. Your counsellor reviews progress with you regularly.

Question 6

What if my partner refuses to come to couples therapy?

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You can start on your own. Individual sessions help you understand the relationship, and partners often join later.

Question 7

Will the counsellor take sides?

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No. Your couple therapist stays neutral and makes sure both of you feel heard.

Question 8

Is online couple therapy as effective as in person?

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For most couples, yes. Online sessions follow the same methods and many couples find them easier to fit into busy lives.

Question 9

How long is a couple counselling session?

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Couple sessions last 75 minutes so both partners have enough time to speak.

Question 10

How much does couple counselling cost in India?

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At Urban Counsellor a single session is ₹1,800 and the 4-session couples package is ₹9,000. The first 15-minute call is free.

Question 11

Can couple counselling help after infidelity?

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It can help both partners understand what happened, rebuild honesty and decide whether to continue. Outcomes depend on both partners' commitment.

Question 12

Can marriage counselling save my marriage?

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Counselling can't promise an outcome. Many couples who commit to the process communicate better and rebuild trust. It also helps couples who decide to part to do so respectfully.

Question 13

Do both partners need to attend marriage therapy?

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It works best together, but you can begin alone. Individual sessions are valuable and often encourage a spouse to join.

Question 14

Is online marriage counselling effective?

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For most couples, yes. Online sessions use the same methods and are easier to fit around work and family.

Question 15

Do you offer family counselling for in-law issues?

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Yes. When helpful, family members can join a session to improve understanding and set boundaries.

Question 16

Is marriage counselling confidential?

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Yes. What you share stays private, except in rare situations where someone's safety is at serious risk.

Question 17

Can you help with an extramarital affair?

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Yes. We support both partners to understand what happened, process hurt and decide the way forward.

Question 18

Do you give divorce advice?

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We help you reach a clear emotional decision. For legal questions we recommend a qualified family lawyer.

Question 19

How many sessions is premarital counselling?

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Most couples take 3 to 6 sessions. We suggest a roadmap after your first meeting.

Question 20

Is pre-marriage counselling only for couples with problems?

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No. It's preventive — like a health check-up for your relationship before marriage.

Question 21

Can we do pre-marital counselling online?

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Yes. Sessions are available online across India, ideal for busy or long-distance couples.

Question 22

Can arranged-marriage couples who have just met attend?

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Yes. It's a gentle, structured way to understand each other and check compatibility.

Question 23

What questions should we ask before marriage?

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Talk about money, where you'll live, family involvement, children, how you handle anger and what support looks like on a hard day.

Question 24

Is it normal to have cold feet before marriage?

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Yes, many people feel some doubt or anxiety. Counselling helps you understand whether it's normal nerves or a deeper concern.

Question 25

How long does it take to get over a breakup?

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There's no fixed timeline. With support, many people feel noticeably lighter within a few weeks of starting counselling.

Question 26

Is it normal to think about my ex every day?

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Yes, it's very common. Counselling helps reduce intrusive thoughts and overthinking over time.

Question 27

Can breakup counselling help me get back with my ex?

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Our focus is your healing and clarity. If reconciliation is on your mind, we'll explore it honestly.

Question 28

Are breakup counselling sessions confidential?

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Yes. What you share stays private, except in rare safety situations.

Question 29

How long is a breakup counselling session?

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Individual sessions last 50 minutes.

Question 30

When should I get help after a breakup?

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Consider help if sadness lasts more than a few weeks, affects sleep or work, or you feel stuck. Seek urgent help if you have thoughts of self-harm.

Question 31

Do you offer divorce recovery counselling?

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Yes. We support people rebuilding emotionally and practically after separation or divorce.

Question 32

Does online counselling work?

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Yes. Research and our clients' experience show online counselling is as effective as in-person for most relationship concerns.

Question 33

What do I need for an online session?

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A phone or laptop, a stable internet connection and a private, quiet space. We share a secure video link before your session.

Question 34

Can my partner and I join from different cities?

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Absolutely. Each of you can join from your own device, wherever you are in India or abroad.

Question 35

How long are sessions?

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Individual sessions are 50 minutes. Couple sessions are 75 minutes to give both partners time to be heard.

Question 36

How much does relationship counselling cost?

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Single sessions start at ₹1,800, with discounted packs available. See our How It Works page for full pricing.

Question 37

Is the first consultation free?

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Yes, a 15-minute call is free so you can ask questions and see if we're the right fit.

Question 38

Can counselling save my marriage?

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We can't promise outcomes, but counselling gives you the best chance to understand each other, rebuild trust and decide your future with clarity.

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